May Special Grand Finale 2025: Topic: You must access light, knowledge before you enter destiny

By Pastor Kola Oyekale

Isaiah 28:10 NLT
[10] He tells us everything over and over— one line at a time, one line at a time, a little here, and a little there!”

God has a purpose for your life, relationship and marriage.

Marriage is not a contract, marriage is a covenant. In a contract you are committed to each other just to protect your interest but in covenant you are committed to God, the marriage and to your partner.

No institution or group can determine what marriage will be. It is wrong to enter into marriage based on what you see or hear on social media or based on your culture.

To be committed to marriage is being committed to God, to the institution and then the person you are married to.

Things you should consider when you are going into a marriage or relationship are:
1. You must lower your expectations and increase your preparation.
2. Don’t assume you know things about marriage because you love someone. Rather take time to prepare for it.
3. Getting the right partner shouldn’t be a struggle or by your strength rather a resting in God, trusting God and depending on God.
4. No amount of love can keep marriage. It is not love that keeps marriage. Marriage is a great thing and that’s why it’s not easy.
5. Marriage is not about the right person it’s about being the right person. It’s not about being served rather it’s about YOU being the servant. You need to be selfless in your relationship.

Trust over time. Any relationship you get into, you have to be sincere and truthful.

2 key principles about marriage.
A principle is an established thing that has a result.
1. RESPECT: Love is built on mutual respect. Both parties must respect each other.

A happy marriage is not about how compatible you are. Instead it is how you deal with your incompatibility. The goal of marriage is not to think alike but to think together.

Even if a marriage is from heaven and lacks management it will definitely scatter. Love is true when you don’t see each eye to eye but you can work hand to hand.

2. RESPONSIBILITY: Be more interested in fixing the problem than fixing the person. Don’t look for people who will complement you when you have issues with your partner rather look for people who will state your wrongs and tell you the right thing to do
Philippians 2:4 NLT
[4] Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

How to identify the right person
1) You must look for someone who knows who he is.
2) When God’s Presence is the passion of that person.